Hey bloggie. I know it’s been the longest time since I last blogged. And I believe I am slowly losing a lot of my readers due to, firstly, my change in blog url, secondly, my inconsistency in updating.

 

Conclusion? I’m not a good blogger.

 

There’s soooo much to tell and to update about, that I don’t know where to start.

 

First and foremost, my relationship with Hsien Han has come to a standstill.

Since when????? I can just imagine a lot of people exclaiming. Since mid march. And why haven’t I mentioned it? Because we didn’t know what to say to our common friends. See, we’ve been together for so long, 4.5 years to be exact, and people, generally, expect us to eventually get married. So when it came to a halt, we, me and him, also expect people to be super shocked. And our common group of friends will feel so awkward being around us. Thus, nobody knows till end of April. And he is the one who spoiled everything. To the extend of us not talking. I’ll be wearing those scars for everyone to see too.

 

I’m not gonna diss him on the internet, cause my mother’s taught me better than that.

 

And why is that (that we are not talking) again?  Cause he found out (or rather he asked ad I told him) about this other guy I know. Let’s just call this other guy I got to know as ERMS. ERMS is a restaurant manager. He is 25. Well built. Not bad looking. (I can just hear my friends protesting loudly, “yeah, to you only la!!!!”. And according to my sister, he looks like the flirtatious kind.) anyways, back to ERMS, I found him attractive. I didn’t know him at all initially, but I am the regular customer of that branch of that restaurant he is working at. Excuse me, I don’t become a regular customer just for a guy I found cute, okay. I was already a regular there. Then after that, he was then transferred over to this branch that I frequent. So I saw him 2 times at the restaurant, then I told my bestie that I found this guy cute. But my bestie didn’t know it was ERMS that I was referring to, cause both of the times I saw him, I wasn’t with my bestie. And so how did I get to know this guy? Such a long and interesting story, that made me realize that the world is such a small, small place!!!!! After that, I believed in fate too. Coincidental will be the word I’ll use to describe the way of knowing ERMS.

 

My bestie somehow had some connection with him, how coincidental! And so being what a bestfriend should be, she introduced me to that guy when we went to dine in.

So I was gushing already. It’s been a damn long time since I gushed about a guy, mind u. Say, 3 years? Anyway, that guy and me shook hands, the old fashion way of getting to know someone. And guess what, I could tell, the whole time while my bestie and me were eating and talking, he was looking at me. Do I enjoy it? Yes. A lot. So he tried to talk to us, and guess what!!!! He asked for number from both of us. And my funny and witty BFF straight away asked him, “Actually u only want her number right?” Oh my goodness it was so funny la! Anyway she doesn’t care, cause he’s ot her type, and she is just doing what she thinks I’ll be happy. She says seeing me having a crush on that guy and being so gushy makes her feel happy cause I am happy. (and silly) ok, so I gave my number to that guy. After that, he was just making conversation with us beside our table now and then. I can soooo damn feel his interest k. And true enough, he called me the very night.

 

By the way, I think that guy is too easy. I’ve expected a much harder time to get to know him.(say, going to dine in a few more times before I catch his attention and I ask for his number instead.) well that was just cheap thrills for me.

 

We started talking on the phone, and right now, we’re having the status of flings.

No strings attached, but I am very much still attracted to him. We fancy each other, and he has been jokingly, or rather, very subtly hinting that I should be his girlfriend. And it gets less and less subtle as weeks go by, and right now, he told me he will definitely propose to me to be his GF, and he wants that day to be memorable for both of us.

 

Will update more soon.

That was the bouquet my last fling gave me. The one with the girlfriend. And the girlfriend found out about us. Well, need i say more?

Random pic of me.

Cheap thrills. In the male toilet.

One of those kissy pictures i always take.

Look at my collection of fakies! And mind you, it's not the most updated collection. Haha.